“…The long‐term inclusive partnership took place between April 2014 and April 2018. During this collaboration, we worked on a structured interview survey (Frankena, Naaldenberg, Bekkema et al, ), a Delphi study (Frankena et al, ), a case study (Frankena, Naaldenberg, Cardol, vanderCruijsen et al, revisions submitted), a consensus statement (Frankena, Naaldenberg, Cardol, Garcia‐Iriarte et al, ) and the study described in this paper. Tessa, Henk and Anneke worked together every Wednesday between 10.00 and 14.00 hr.…”