Flowering plants often occur in mixed-species groups where interactions between them can occur both pre-and post-pollination. In post-pollination interactions, conspecific (CP) and heterospecific pollen (HP) interact on the style and previous work indicates that these interactions, often, but not always, lead to reduced fitness. However, over half of insect-pollinated species display a mixed mating system, where both self and outcross CP could interact with HP, yet no study has evaluated the effects on both types of CP. We present and test hypotheses for the differential effects of HP depending on CP source and timing of HP arrival with a mixed-mating plant, Mimulus guttatus, and one of its HP donors (Helianthus exilis). We found H. exilis pollen reduced tube growth and fertilization success of M. guttatus self pollen to a greater degree than outcross pollen, but only when CP and HP were applied simultaneously. Our results indicate that for mixed-mating plants the fitness consequences of HP receipt can be more detrimental than previously thought. Furthermore, our findings suggest that HP receipt, which can be high in biodiverse areas, has the potential to influence mating system and genetic diversity of the plant populations within them.