“…As numerous studies demonstrate, relational family dynamics can be altered and reconfigured, at least temporarily, by the range of reactions to the transgender child's coming out (see, e.g., Catalpa and McGuire, 2018;Fuller and Riggs, 2018;Robinson, 2018;von Doussa, Power and Riggs, 2020;McDermott et al, 2021). Feelings of hopelessness, helplessness, grief, sadness and ambiguous loss (Catalpa and McGuire, 2018) can circulate within the family, making way for affective reorientation among family members, not only towards each other but also towards the future temporality of the family, as roles, boundaries and meaning must be reconceptualised within family relationships (Alegría, 2018;Kelley, 2020). When the child's gender non-normativity is experienced as a deviation from the line and when this deviation is experienced as a threat to the family's 'idealisation of domestic privacy' (Ahmed, 2010: 90), the gender non-normative agent can become an affect alien, killing the 'joy of the family' and, by extension, 'killing the family by killing the association with joy' (49).…”