Quinine-based (R)-tert-butylsulfinate 3 reacts with tris-lithiated bis-arylamide 2 to afford gram-quantities of optically pure (S*O)N(S*O) sulfoxide pincer ligand (R,R)-4. Deprotonation of (R,R)-4 and p-Tol-substituted analogue (S,S)-5 with MgPh 2 and BnK yields respective Mg and K amido-bissulfoxides 6−9. In Mg complexes 6 and 7, the sulfoxide functions are O-coordinated, thereby imparting a pronounced helicity to the ligand backbone. Transmetalation of 6 and 7 with [PdCl 2 (NCPh) 2 ] affords the S,S-coordinated C 2 -symmetric and the O,S-coordinated C 1 -symmetric chlorido complexes 10 and 11, respectively, and reaction of potassium amides 8 and 9 with [PdCl(CH 3 )(COD)] leads to methyl-palladium pincer complexes 12 and 13, respectively. The crystal structures of 6, 7, 12, and 13 reveal a chameleonic ligand system with predictable behavior: (R)-configured 4 induces pronounced λ backbone helicity in the O-coordinated Mg-complex and weaker δ helicity in S-coordinated Pd-complexes, while (S)-configured ligand 5 mirrors this stereochemistry. S-Coordination induces stronger, C 2 -symmetric, steric crowding in the head-on quadrants compared to O-coordination. When (R,R)-4 is reacted with 2 equiv of [Pd(CH 3 ) 2 (tmeda)], crystalline chiral Pd-sulfenate complex 16 forms by elimination of iso-butene and methane with inversion of configuration at the sulfenate S atom.