Child of two worlds: How foster care workers perceive their skills in dealing with worldview differences in foster care

Abstract

Foster children often encounter worldview differences between their foster family and their birth family, for example, when participating in religious activities and practices. Foster children not only have a right to continuity in upbringing but also consistency in worldview, culture and language. Good co‐parenting relationships are important for their identity development. For these reasons, foster care workers are entrusted with the task of supporting the triadic relationship of the foster child, birth parents and foster parents in dealing with worldview differences. Based on in‐depth interviews with foster care workers (n = 16) six skills in dealing with worldview differences can be distinguished: (1) basic knowledge of worldviews and identity formation; (2) empathizing with the other; (3) inquisitiveness to discover what is essential for the other; (4) initiating worldview conversations and keeping them going; (5) fostering self‐reflection in worldview; and (6) manoeuvring between and monitoring all interests. It is helpful if birth parents are well‐informed in advance about the impact of worldview differences and if foster care workers and foster parents are aware of the identity and developmental needs of foster children to explore the worldview of the foster family and the birth family.

Weaving webs of well-being: The ethics of navigating religious differences in Christian foster families with foster children of various backgrounds

“…Parents immerse children in a religious social life at a young age to offer them a firm Christian foundation (Smith et al, 2020: 158). As volunteers, religious foster parents have the right to practice their religion as part of family life (Van de Koot-Dees et al, 2023). Yet, transreligious foster placements are challenging in families in which religion deeply defines parents' identity (Van de Koot-Dees et al, 2023).…”

“…As volunteers, religious foster parents have the right to practice their religion as part of family life (Van de Koot-Dees et al, 2023). Yet, transreligious foster placements are challenging in families in which religion deeply defines parents' identity (Van de Koot-Dees et al, 2023). Ethical dilemmas may emerge in relation to parents' fear that birth children break ties with religion.…”