2000
DOI: 10.1177/105413730000800206
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Being a Man about it: The Marginalization of Men in Grief

Abstract: American men tend to be marginalized in grief and loss. The commonly held view of effective grieving does a disservice to those mourners who engage in a more closed style of grieving. Conventional-style grievers are more willing to express their emotions related to loss and are therefore more apt to be recognized and supported by others. The masculine grief response, a style popularly portrayed by U.S. American males and endorsed as gender appropriate, leads to the marginalizing of such survivors. Strategies f… Show more

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“…There are, however, a number of examples in the literature describing supportive interventions for women before and post-termination which appear to have face-validity. 203 Understanding the choices that parents might make can be dif®cult especially if they choose to do something that runs counter to perceived wisdom, as in not wanting to see the baby. .…”
Section: Characteristics Of Carementioning
confidence: 99%
“…There are, however, a number of examples in the literature describing supportive interventions for women before and post-termination which appear to have face-validity. 203 Understanding the choices that parents might make can be dif®cult especially if they choose to do something that runs counter to perceived wisdom, as in not wanting to see the baby. .…”
Section: Characteristics Of Carementioning
confidence: 99%
“…Kamm and Vandenberg (2001) found significant disparity between genders about grief communication, with mothers placing more value on open communication than their partners. Martin and Doka (2000) isolated two schemas: intuitive-the more feminine style that focuses on seeking social support, narration, and open expression; and instrumental-the more masculine style that involves cognitive processes, refocusing of grief on tasks and activities, and is often more solitary, structured, and bounded (Zinner, 2000). Mothers tended to have a greater need to talk about (Laasko & Paunonen-Ilmonen, 2002, p. 180).…”
Section: Review Of Literaturementioning
confidence: 99%
“…The male participants In this study ware aware of the naad to adapt to domesticity and ware aware that this was in confilc\ with the stereotyplcal male role (Brabant, Forsyth, & Melancon, 1992;Daggett, 2002;Quigley & Schatz, 1999;Zinner, 2000). The men who had nursing backgrounds fell that It was easiE!rfor them to adapt to a domesOc and sole parent role, however, Davi d seemed to have adapted very wall, and foun1 the new role satisfying.…”
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confidence: 83%