“…Due to strong feelings of distrust of others, these individuals actively avoid and dismiss thoughts and feelings that could lead to closeness and interdependence. The act of suppressing potentially threatening information and keeping it out of awareness requires the allocation and maintenance of cognitive resources (Ochsner & Gross, 2005), which can be disrupted and depleted under conditions of elevated cognitive load or intense emotion (Caldwell, Krug, Carter, & Minzenberg, in press;Edelstein & Gillath, 2008;Mikulincer, Dolev, & Shaver, 2004), resulting in the breakdown of attentional control and diminished capacity for self-reflection and mindful awareness. can be viewed as an attempt to keep the fleeting relationship alive and guard against perceived threats of abandonment and loss.…”