“…Others dressed provocatively in spiked heels, mesh stockings, garter belts, low necklines, red and purple wigs, and voluptuous false red lips, and danced on table tops at the formal dinner, "If not now, when?" The point is that the Red Hat Society® provides space and freedom to play with cultural norms of femininity and the aging process, unusual for women, particularly unusual for older women (Sutton-Smith, 1972;Ware, 2001).…”