“…The theory proposes that family relationships are characterized by such simultaneous positive and negative feelings in part because of structural contradictions inherent in family roles (Connidis & McMullin, ; Pillemer & Suitor, ). In research conducted over the past decade, studies have confirmed that ambivalence (measured in a variety of ways) is indeed a common characteristic of parent–child relations in later life (Fingerman, Pitzer, Lefkowitz, Birditt, & Mroczek, ; Kiecolt, Blieszner, & Salva, ; Lowenstein, ; Pillemer et al, ; Pillemer, Munsch, Fuller‐Rowell, Riffin, & Suitor, ; Suitor, Gilligan, & Pillemer, ; Wilson, Shuey, Elder, & Wickrama, ).…”