Recent advances in Multidisciplinary Design Optimization (MDO) have opened up the possibility of solving large-scale MDO problems with appropriate computational tools. One way in which design space exploration in MDO problems is made possible is by using solvers with varying levels of fidelity and computational cost. Our aim in this work is to make possible such an MDO approach by establishing a solver-independent aeroelastic coupling approach. We show that conservation of aeroelastic work requires an algebraic relation to be satisfied that involves the projection operators which map displacements and forces between solvers and states. Implementation examples are given for various combinations of fluid and solid solvers, and it is shown that these implementations indeed conserve all force components and aeroelastic work.