Supramolecular main group chemistry is a developing field which parallels the conventional domain of metallo‐organic chemistry. Little explored building blocks in this area are main group metal‐based ligands which have the appropriate donor symmetry to build desired molecular or extended arrangements. Tris(pyridyl) main group ligands (E(py)3, E=main group metal) are potentially highly versatile building blocks since shifting the N‐donor arms from the 2‐ to the 3‐positions and 4‐positions provides a very simple way of changing the ligand character from mononuclear/chelating to multidentate/metal‐bridging. Here, the coordination behaviour of the first main group metal tris(4‐pyridyl) ligands, E(4‐py)3 (E=Sb, Bi, Ph−Sn) is explored, as well as their ability to build metal‐organic frameworks (MOFs). The complicated topology of these MOFs shows a marked influence on the counter anion and on the ability of the E(4‐py)3 ligands to switch coordination mode, depending on the steric and donor character of the bridgehead. This structure‐directing influence of the bridgehead provides a potential building strategy for future molecular and MOF design in this area.