Based on topological graph theory, collaboration technique and other relevant theory, this paper carry out the research of exploring a technical path to solving the conflict of concurrency in CVM, Under the circum stances of conforming to logic and topological relationship , the attributes of timing sequence are studied emphatically, following the deeply analysis quantitatively and qualitatively, then the mathematical expression of predicted retardation and the control strategy are put forward, which builds a fair and friendly negotiation mechanism for occurrence priority distribution. Finally the OOT (Object Oriented Technology) based programming structure and realization means of the strategy are given in this paper. What elaborated in this paper has certain engineering and application value for the design of complicated virtual maintains system , conflict resolution of concurrency and the application of collaboration technique etc.