2009
DOI: 10.1177/1077801209353577
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“A Fool to Keep Staying”: Battered Women Labeling Themselves Stupid as an Expression of Gendered Shame

Abstract: In this qualitative study with women who have left abusive heterosexual relationships, the informants labeling themselves stupid is investigated. Several different meanings ascribed to stupidity were found, with feeling stupid for allowing oneself to be mistreated and for staying in the abusive relationship as main themes. Four frames for interpreting the findings are presented: abusive relationship dynamics, gendered shame, the gender-equality-oriented Nordic context, and leaving processes. It is proposed tha… Show more

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“…Our data show that the White British and Black women alike aimed to maintain their reputations; putting "appearances" before individual interests was cross-cultural (see also Burman & Chantler, 2005). This fits Enander's (2010) explanation that shame (e.g., from damaged reputations, or from not "doing gender") is a gendered response embedded in patriarchal discourses. GPs were seen as a less problematic source of emotional support outside the family than "going public."…”
Section: Discussionsupporting
confidence: 78%
“…Our data show that the White British and Black women alike aimed to maintain their reputations; putting "appearances" before individual interests was cross-cultural (see also Burman & Chantler, 2005). This fits Enander's (2010) explanation that shame (e.g., from damaged reputations, or from not "doing gender") is a gendered response embedded in patriarchal discourses. GPs were seen as a less problematic source of emotional support outside the family than "going public."…”
Section: Discussionsupporting
confidence: 78%
“…Qualitative interview studies on IPVAW in Nordic countries have explored a range of issues. These include women's experiences of violence (Almqvist & Broberg, ; Bergman, ; Bruno, ; Enander, , , , ; Eriksson & Ulmestig, ; Flinck, Paavilainen, & Astedt‐Kurki, ; Häggblom & Möller, ; Hydén, , , ; Jarnkvist & Brännström, ; Römpötti, ; Scheffer Lindgren & Renck, ), of violence during pregnancy (Edin, Dahlgren, Lalos, & Högberg, ; Edin & Högberg, ; Edin & Nilsson, ; Engnes & Lundgren, ; Finnbogadóttir, Dykes, & Wann‐Hansson, ) and motherhood (Almqvist & Broberg, ; Georgsson et al, ), and of leaving violent relationships (Enander, ; Enander & Holmberg, ; Häggblom & Möller, ; Holmberg & Enander, ; Hydén, , ; Hydén, ; Jarnkvist, ; Münger, ; Scheffer Lindgren & Renck, ). Studies have investigated women's experiences with the judicial (Agevall, ; BRÅ, ; Brännvall, ; Bruno, ; Ekström, ; Green, ; Jarnkvist, ; Jarnkvist & Brännström, ), social service (Eriksson & Ulmestig, ; Jarnkvist & Brännström, ; Nikupeteri, ; Ulmestig & Panican, ) and health care systems (Garnweidner‐Holme, Lukasse, Solheim, & Henriksen, ; Gillå et al, ; Häggblom & Möller, ; Leppakoski, Paavilainen, & Astedt‐Kurki, ; Mørk, Andersen, & Taket, ; Örmon & Hörberg, ; Örmon, Torstensson Levander, Sunnqvist, & Bahtsevani, ; Pratt‐Eriksson, Bergbom, & Lyckhage, ).…”
Section: Methodsmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…This phenomenon; the coexistence of high levels of gender equality and of IPVAW, has been termed the Nordic paradox (Gracia & Merlo, ). While several researchers have pointed toward this apparent paradox (Agevall, ; Alsaker, Moen, Baste, & Morken, ; Enander, ; Gottzén, ; Hydén, ; Jones, ), thus far it remains unresolved.…”
Section: Introductionmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…Some survivors share this belief in their own character weakness, reflecting the socially constructed power dynamics expected in such an intimate connection (Enander, 2010). If the relationship is unhealthy, physically or emotionally, then she "should just leave."…”
Section: Introductionmentioning
confidence: 99%