The "boy" question burst on the scene a couple of years ago. Suddenly, it seemed, America had "discovered" boys.A flurry of best-selling titles urged us to "rescue" and "protect" boys. Psychologists like William Pollack, Dan Kindlon, and Michael Thompson described how boys are failing at school, acting out behaviorally, feeling depressed and suicidal, or shutting down emotionally. Most of the better books by these therapists point their finger at what Pollack labeled the boy code-the cultural myths of masculinity to which boys try so desperately and so poignantly to adhere, despite their small frames and trembling hearts. They advised anguished parents about boys' fragility, their hidden despondence, and depression, and issued stern warnings about the dire consequences if we don't watch our collective cultural step. Other works by political pundits such as Christina Hoff Sommers and by psychologists like Michael Gurian, sought to rescue boys from feminists, who they claimed were problematizing normal, natural, rambunctious boyhood.Boys had been "discovered" all right-both as a psychological problemin-waiting, and as a political football.Lost in much of the ensuing public conversation were the boys themselves-the richness of their experiences, the texture of their lives. This was to be expected of those who were simply using boys as a foil with which to critique feminism. In fact, the pundits appeared relatively uninterested in boys' welfare; they were simply the latest weapon against feminists.Yet some of the richness of boys' experiences and lives seemed lost also in the best-sellers by psychologists who had spent their careers listening to boys' voices. The fact that all of their books portrayed white boys on their covers was more than a marketing ploy by their publishers; their books generalized from predominantly middle-and upper-middle-class white xi xii Foreword Press, Jennifer Hammer, for her support of this book and for her dedication to publishing works that reveal the missing voices in the social sciences. Finally, we thank Emily Park for help in editing and organizing the manuscript.