“…Among the exceptions, only two have been formally evaluated, both of which focus on doing and policing of appearance-based gender norms, including painting nails (Edwards 2010), walking, sitting, and talking (Berkowitz et al 2010). Among published exercises not evaluated, nearly all address only the doing of gender rather than also gender policing (e.g., Crane, Towne, and Crane-Seeber 2013; Giuffre, Anders, and Bird 2008; Kolb 2000; Loewen and Sampson 1986; Marciano 1986; Schacht 2004; Taylor 2003; for an exception, see Good and Moss-Racusin 2010). To my knowledge, no learning exercise has been published on the ways in which gender is done in dating, including speed dating.…”