“…Adoptive parents take the lead in establishing the extent to which adoptive and birth family members will interact after adoption (Neil, Beek, & Schofield, 2003). In fact, research has revealed that adoptive parents often serve as gatekeeper between the adopted child and birth parent(s) (Hays, Horstman, Colaner, & Nelson, 2015) such that adoptive parents often provide vital information and tell stories that may affect the adoptee-birth parent relationship (Colaner, Halliwell, & Guignon, 2014;Hays et al, 2015). Yet as adoptees transition to adulthood, their roles in the family may shift; adoptees may begin making independent decisions about contact and initiating conversations about adoption (Farr, Grant-Marsney, & Grotevant, 2014).…”