“…Hines, Brown and Dunning (2007) epitomised this attitude to domestic violence (and through this to abused husbands) in statements such as 'only violence against women should be evaluated as a social problem requiring concern and social intervention'; or 'only men can be perpetrators of violence' (Katz, 2006); or 'women are typically victims and not perpetrators of violence in intimate relationships' (Katz, 2006). This is not a single voice but rather a common belief shared by the vast majority of those dealing with domestic violence (Kaur, 2011), and a principle that is widespread among most current writers on this subject. Domestic violence is generally seen as a manifestation of patriarchal values; or a symptom of a social structure which is predominantly patriarchal and embedded in stereotyped male and female gender roles (Ilika, Okonkwo & Adogu, 2002) and of male supremacy (Leonard, 2005;Koss, 2007); a tool in the hands of men which is used 'to control female intimates' (Hines, Brown & Dunning, 2007) and not the result of individual failings of the relationship.…”